Asilomar Beach California Getaway for Couples

Asilomar Beach and Asilomar State Park near the infamous 17 Mile Drive, are places where time seems to almost stop. The tranquility and serene feel that overtakes you here is calming, and just what you need for that romantic getaway you have been planning.

This is a place where you can feel and hear the incredible power of crashing waves and where it just seems perfect to walk and walk for long distances along the shore.

Several Happy Couples Exploring The Beach At Asilomar

Asilomar Beach ... A Popular Stop Near 17 Mile Drive

Robert Louis Stevenson was well known as a pundent and writer while he lived along the Pacific Coast and left many quotations.

After his visit to this beach he wrote this description:

"Waves cursing slowly vast and green, curling their translucent necks and bursting forth with suprising uproar, waxing and waining up and down the long keyboard of the beach"

That's how it is here. The water is deep blue, and the tidepools hold crab, mussels, sea urchins and anemone. There are blond and black sea lions, harbour seals, and on occasion, the errant elephant seal who made the mistake of thinking this beach was his breeding grounds instead of the more private beach at Santa Cruz north.

The sand here is hard packed so it's a nice beach for a romantic stroll or extended running.

Parking can be a headache on weekends, so make sure that if you are visiting for the unusually nice sunsets, that you get here early for a spot.

Postcard Images From The North End Of Asilomar Beach

Asilomar Beach is part of the Asilomar Marine Reserve, part of four distinct areas along the Pacific Grove coast. The Asilomar Reserve stretches form Point Pinos at the tip of Pacific Grove to Point Joe just a little farther south. The area is a protected space and is used for research and to improve the health and well-being of marine habitat.

On Your Way To The Beach!

One of the things that appeals to many who visit here is that you can explore the mile long beach that is rare on the Pacific Coast. I personally enjoy walking on this beach for long periods of time, enjoying the crisp sometimes pungent air, the sounds of sea birds ... and sometimes I enjoy having a destination.

Asilomar Beach offers all those things, and if you go on a week day when the fog is offshore, this is a really nice stop. 

Asilomar is at the very border between Pacific Grove and Pebble Beach. You can pay the $10 to go thru the gate to get to Spanish Bay and the resort that makes up part of this coastine or ... you can take a detour after you enjoy Asilomar Beach, and then walk a little farther south on the beach. Look for the boardwalk that lies just behind the dunes and connects near Sunset Drive.

There are no signs on the boardwalk but after about a 1/2 mile, you will see that the boardwalk turns inland toward the Spanish Bay Golf Course. 

There is a concrete golf path then another boardwalk. Turn right and before you begin second guessing yourselves, the Inn at the Spanish Bay Resort deck, fireplace pits and Sticks restaurant appear.

The restaurant Sticks is a great place for a very informal late lunch. Take a tour of this fabulous resort, hang around for awhile, and then make your way back to Asilomar Beach to catch the setting sun and feel the romance.

Rolling Waves Wash Your Cares Away ... Guaranteed!

Romantic Couple Watching The Waves Roll Toward Shore

Rock Outcroppings And Pounding Surf

Winding Path To Asilomar Beach

Weddings On The Beach

Weddings on the beach are allowed and even encouraged as long as the needed permits are put in place before the ceremony. The backdrop is gorgeous with jagged rock outcroppings and whitewater in the surf.  

If your looking for a memorable wedding location where privacy is not a big concern, and the number of guests is small, there are segments of this beach that would be a nice setting for a ceremony and picture shoot.

Contact the Special Events consultant by calling 831 649.7118.

Since the temperature and wind here can vary, a ceremony in early spring or early fall would provide the best chance for good weather.

Asilomar Beach And State Park Conference Center

Just a short walk from Asilomar Beach is the rustic elegance of the Asilomar State Park Conference Center and the history of Julia Morgan's architectural influence here is fascinating. Merrill Hall, and the Crocker Dining Hall are both part of the original deigns back in the early 1900's

Deer wander the acres of grounds and there is an away from it all serene feel. The beach is a hundred yards down the boardwalk and there is quick access to restrooms and Phoebe's Cafe since there are no facilities along Asilomar Beach.

The grounds tell a tale of vintage charm. If you decide to linger for awhile, you might  consider the clever cell phone tours availble by brochure at the main conference desk.

These tours have pre recorded information about these areas:

  • Asilomar Beach Coast Trail - 2 hour round trip tour of Asilomar Beach
  • Forrest Walk - 45 minute tour of the forests bordering the beach
  • Julia Morgan Architectual Walk - 1/4 mile walk with descriptions and history of Asilomar architecture

There is also the "Asilomar Ramble" that leaves the park headquarters ever Friday and Saturday at 9:30 AM and lasts about an hour. Park rangers will take you on a walk and discuss the natural history of Asilomar and it's culture

If your interested in staying here for a few nights be aware that reservations are sometimes difficult to book. I have stayed here twice in the last 15 years, and  the accommodations are dated, with no phones, TV or much privacy.

That dozen't seem to deter many from enjoying this seaside refuge, but just be aware and maybe check out the rooms before you commit for any long stay.

Reviewers Suggest That Accommodations Here Have Historic Appeal But Are Worn And Without Expected Amenities

Deer are All Around The Conference Center And Beach

How To Get Here

Asilomar Beach: Please consult the map link below,but the easiest way to find Asilomar Beach is to exit Highway 1 just south of Monterey and before you get to Carmel. Take Highway 68 west to Pacific Grove, turn left on Sunset Drive in Pacific Grove and follow Sunset Drive to Asilomar Beach.

Asilomar State Beach and Conference Center: Follow the same direction to Asilomar State Beach and make a right turn from Sunset Drive to Asilomar Avenue.

Park Headquarters: 831.646.6443

This is a state park and marine refuge so there are a few rules and things to know:

  • Dogs on leash only
  • No bathrooms
  • No camping no campfires except in self container Hibachi's
  • No alcohol
  • No bonfires
  • No picnic facilities

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